When Your Way Isn’t Working – Control vs. Surrender

Pastor Lis Burns

March 9, 2025

  • “You can have control or you can have growth but you can’t have both.” – Craig Groeschel

Galatians 2:20 (NIV)  //  I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.

  • A Christian can’t live a life pleasing to God while also fighting for control
  1. Relationship control
  2. Financial control
  3. Emotional control

Matthew 26:39, 42 (NIV)  //  Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.” He went away a second time and prayed, “My Father, if it is not possible for this cup to be taken away unless I drink it, may your will be done.”

  • NEVERTHELESS
  • Surrender is the answer to our need for control
  • The process of our transformation takes place at the point of our need/weakness.

2 Corinthians 12:19 (NIV)  //  But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

  • How do we surrender? We wait on God.
  • Waiting on God is an action based on confident assurance of grace to come.
  • Waiting on God is internal rest that results in courageous action.